Instagram is really unhealthy. Newsflash. I know. It was and has always been unhealthy. Actually its not just instagram, the whole social media sites are.
Been comparing my life with what i saw on their stories. Padahal dah cukup semua tu....and me sharing photos of my baby, entah2 ada orang lain tak suka jugak. Zzz.
Going back to blogspot where people don't even remember their passwords anymore.
Or maybe just netflix. Lol.
Being old sucks and not bad at the same time.
Monday, September 9, 2019
Monday, July 1, 2019
Gifts, ole ole
Hi.
Tadi pagi aku pergi rumah mak aku before masuk office. Mak aku cerita yang opah aku tertanya-tanya yang anak dia baru balik dari raya kat oversea takde belikan apa2 ke?
Dah few times dah rupanya.....weh sian opah. Yang pergi umrah, balik ziarah opah, cerita macam2 tapi tak belikan pape, sebiji kurma pun. Pi jepun 2 weeks, balik cerita macam2 kat opah tapi tak beli pape pun.
Pastu yang terharuuuuu, opah slalu cakap "ni cik belikan" sambil keluarkan barang yang aku belikan kat jepun dari bilik. Wey aku belikan opah fridge magnet je, ada kucing yang putih tu sebab opah suka kucing. Tak sangka opah ingat sampai camtu sekali.
Back to kisah tak belikan apa2 tu. Yang jadi kantoi tu sebab time tu tengah makan, opah cakap kat adik aku "***** takde belikan apa2 ke balik dari ****". Adik aku pergi tanya abah aku kuat2, "abah, *** takde belikan pape ke untuk opah?"
Gitu la kantoi nya. Mak aku pun cakap "takpe nanti kite belikan ya."
Wehhh sedih. Hopefully I will always remember my family no matter how expensive the place is, how taktau nak beli apa situation happened. Always always always remember your loved ones."
Tadi pagi aku pergi rumah mak aku before masuk office. Mak aku cerita yang opah aku tertanya-tanya yang anak dia baru balik dari raya kat oversea takde belikan apa2 ke?
Dah few times dah rupanya.....weh sian opah. Yang pergi umrah, balik ziarah opah, cerita macam2 tapi tak belikan pape, sebiji kurma pun. Pi jepun 2 weeks, balik cerita macam2 kat opah tapi tak beli pape pun.
Pastu yang terharuuuuu, opah slalu cakap "ni cik belikan" sambil keluarkan barang yang aku belikan kat jepun dari bilik. Wey aku belikan opah fridge magnet je, ada kucing yang putih tu sebab opah suka kucing. Tak sangka opah ingat sampai camtu sekali.
Back to kisah tak belikan apa2 tu. Yang jadi kantoi tu sebab time tu tengah makan, opah cakap kat adik aku "***** takde belikan apa2 ke balik dari ****". Adik aku pergi tanya abah aku kuat2, "abah, *** takde belikan pape ke untuk opah?"
Gitu la kantoi nya. Mak aku pun cakap "takpe nanti kite belikan ya."
Wehhh sedih. Hopefully I will always remember my family no matter how expensive the place is, how taktau nak beli apa situation happened. Always always always remember your loved ones."
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| Lebih kurang macam ni. Tapi luck cat tu duk sebelah temple |
Tuesday, March 26, 2019
Of BF and FM for our babies
Hello.
Dari lepas bersalin ke waktu pantang dan hingga kini ramai yang akan mengalami situasi di mana orang sekeliling akan keep on saying "susu tak cukup tuuu!" if the baby cries.
Let me tell you what my sister told me during my confinement, right after she knew about me buying FM for my baby.
1. First few days, you won't know how banyak is banyak and how sikit is sikit your milk is. Kalau pump susu, psychologically akan fikir "eh cukup ke ni? Eh baby minum kejap je habis ni." etc etc etc
Her advice? Jangan pump dulu. Direct feed the baby, and if the baby pees and poos normally ada la tu susu tu.
2. Baby asyik nangis nak latch je. Actually that is the only way for them to communicate with us mothers. They cant talk, they cant tell you what they want. Kakak aku cakap "nak tukar diaper, dia menyusu. Lapar, menyusu. Perut tak selesa, menyusu." so bukan masalah tak cukup susu.
Kena rajin check. You'll know the signs in no time, no worries :) chehwah sekarang no worries, padahal duluuu time sendiri kena.......nangis. hahaha
Tapi for me. FM or BF, NEVER LET YOUR BABY GO HUNGRY. Jangan dengar cakap orang yang FM is bad for your baby la, nak anak pandai bagi BF je la(i personally kena ni!!!!!). Mother knows best gitu. Dont let other mothers downgrade you just because you feed different milk from them.
Like duhh we all know mothers' milk are the best. Tapi kalau dah takde nak buat camna.
3. Growth spurt aka tukar bulan. Ni pada I penting sangat untuk tau!!!! Sebab i never heard of it before, sampai la ada satu hari tu baby cranky gilaaaaaa. Like she wont sleep all night, wanted to latch all the time. Wanted to be held all the time.
Sampai la kakak aku cakap, tu nama dia growth spurt. Baby akan cranky sebab badan dia sedang mengalami perubahan. Kekerapan growth spurt tu varies. Ada yang sebulan, lepastu 3 bulan, 4 bulan, and then skip pulak 7 months. Baby lain2.
Oh and during growth spurt(could take up until a week) baby akan rasa lapar tu lebih so they tend to menyusu more than usual. Jangan fikir you tak cukup susu, jangan fikir you're a bad mom for not giving enough milk to your baby. NO. Kalau kencing berak okay tu ado la susu tu ha.
I pernah rasa baby tak cukup susu, i bancuh FM, lepastu bagi kat baby. Tak sampai berapa minit. Bluwekkkkkk. Muntah balik susu tu. Bukan tak cukup wakkk tapi nature dia camtu. Gittewww.
Okay nak tidur dulu. Hope this helps. In case anyone reads this. Lol.
Btw im typing this using my phone, so if there's a typo, just ignore it ya.
Dari lepas bersalin ke waktu pantang dan hingga kini ramai yang akan mengalami situasi di mana orang sekeliling akan keep on saying "susu tak cukup tuuu!" if the baby cries.
Let me tell you what my sister told me during my confinement, right after she knew about me buying FM for my baby.
1. First few days, you won't know how banyak is banyak and how sikit is sikit your milk is. Kalau pump susu, psychologically akan fikir "eh cukup ke ni? Eh baby minum kejap je habis ni." etc etc etc
Her advice? Jangan pump dulu. Direct feed the baby, and if the baby pees and poos normally ada la tu susu tu.
2. Baby asyik nangis nak latch je. Actually that is the only way for them to communicate with us mothers. They cant talk, they cant tell you what they want. Kakak aku cakap "nak tukar diaper, dia menyusu. Lapar, menyusu. Perut tak selesa, menyusu." so bukan masalah tak cukup susu.
Kena rajin check. You'll know the signs in no time, no worries :) chehwah sekarang no worries, padahal duluuu time sendiri kena.......nangis. hahaha
Tapi for me. FM or BF, NEVER LET YOUR BABY GO HUNGRY. Jangan dengar cakap orang yang FM is bad for your baby la, nak anak pandai bagi BF je la(i personally kena ni!!!!!). Mother knows best gitu. Dont let other mothers downgrade you just because you feed different milk from them.
Like duhh we all know mothers' milk are the best. Tapi kalau dah takde nak buat camna.
3. Growth spurt aka tukar bulan. Ni pada I penting sangat untuk tau!!!! Sebab i never heard of it before, sampai la ada satu hari tu baby cranky gilaaaaaa. Like she wont sleep all night, wanted to latch all the time. Wanted to be held all the time.
Sampai la kakak aku cakap, tu nama dia growth spurt. Baby akan cranky sebab badan dia sedang mengalami perubahan. Kekerapan growth spurt tu varies. Ada yang sebulan, lepastu 3 bulan, 4 bulan, and then skip pulak 7 months. Baby lain2.
Oh and during growth spurt(could take up until a week) baby akan rasa lapar tu lebih so they tend to menyusu more than usual. Jangan fikir you tak cukup susu, jangan fikir you're a bad mom for not giving enough milk to your baby. NO. Kalau kencing berak okay tu ado la susu tu ha.
I pernah rasa baby tak cukup susu, i bancuh FM, lepastu bagi kat baby. Tak sampai berapa minit. Bluwekkkkkk. Muntah balik susu tu. Bukan tak cukup wakkk tapi nature dia camtu. Gittewww.
Okay nak tidur dulu. Hope this helps. In case anyone reads this. Lol.
Btw im typing this using my phone, so if there's a typo, just ignore it ya.
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