Pregnancy Journey

Hi....

Its been a long time since i last updated my blog. i almost forgot that i even private it due to some reason... excuse my rusty english lol.

Tajuk very the typical kan pregnancy journey gitu. Just wanted to blog about this so that i can remember how it feels like to be pregnant, in the future. and/or whether i should go through it over again or not in the future lol. jkjk.

First trimester - 

Okay. At first, i already suspected that i was pregnant.  i have always had my period on time every month. without fail. regularly. gitu. Tiba tiba at that time period lambat. Ada la keluar tapi sekejap je. After 2 days, dah tak ada apa2. So mandi wajib and buat aktiviti ibadah seperti biasa, gittohh. Lepas seminggu, i secretly bought a UPT and tested it myself. The result was negative. Not sure why but i was relieved at that time. Maybe risau tak puas enjoy kot.

Did some readings after that. Some say that youll have to wait for at least 2-3 weeks late before testing it. So i did, bought another UPT and waited for 2-3 weeks before testing it. TAPI, naluri tu dah ada. So the following week, masa tengah lunch, dah makan nasi ni boleh pulak teringin pasta, so beli pulak pasta and makan. Lepastu cakap dengan Nieda "beb jom gi Guardian. Aku rasa aku pregnant la. Nak beli test kit tu." Gigih naik uber pergi Guardian.

 Beli time tu yang tak payah tunggu pagi untuk test. Sebab UPT biasa disarankan untuk buat time pagi. Like you need to test it using the first pee of the day. I couldnt wait any longer. So i tested it straight away after returning back to office. As expected, the result was positive, Alhamdulillah :)

I couldnt stop smiling the whole day. Nieda expected it, but of course i wouldnt want her to be the first person to know about it. Of course husband kena tahu dulu! Lepas makan malam, this was our conversation:

Me : Nanti dalam hujung bulan 12 ada orang nak datang ziarah tau.

Him : Siapa?

Me : Ada la, dalam bulan 12 nak ke bulan 1 macam tu.

Him : Siapa? Bagitau la.

Me : Showed him my belly.

His first reaction was to tell Ibu, my MIL. I shhh-ed him at first. He already suspected it anyway. Lepas makan macam tu, baru boleh bagitau MIL. I was expecting him to cry or to be overjoyed with the news, hence the shhh-ing. Lepas bagitau MIL baru husband excited cakap "yeay nanti ada kawan kecik."

First trimester was a bit tough. Pagi gosok gigi muntah, malam lepas makan muntah. Memang nak makan asam asam je time tu. So meja aku ada asam tu lah, asam ni lah. Tapi Alhamdulillah dekat office tak ada muntah2 sangat.

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Second trimester-

Wohooo enjoyyyy. Pergi berjalan sana sini. Sampai ke JB pergi wedding Eija. Tidur hotel best. Penat pun tak rasa sangat. Lunch kalau teringin apa2 pergi carik. Tapi so far bila orang tanya ada craving apa2 tak, tak ada. Craving tu macam datang dan pergi. Cuma ada la satu masa tu teringin sangat nak roti canai dekat specific kedai kat Simpang Balak tu, but husband was on fever att and wouldnt buy it for me. So i drove myself and bought it, sambil nangis2 ni sebab kecik hati. LOLLL.

At second trimester, dah nampak sikit baby bump. Rasa beza lemak (lembik) and baby bump (keras). Also, at this stage is where you will feel the movement of the baby. I first felt it while at office. Time tu nak solat asar, baring kejap. Sekali rasa "DUP." Time tu ingatkan masuk angin ke apa. Rupanya it was my baby, kicking and doing his/her thing :')

Also, we knew our baby's gender at the age of 25 weeks if im not mistaken. :)

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we did most of our shopping during my late 2nd trimester to early 3rd trimester. Most of the baby shopping was done by my husband. Dia punya excited tu, hanya Tuhan yang tahu. hahahha. Tapi its okay hes excited daripada tak ada rasa apa apa langsung. :)

and, mostly beli barang baby online. Dah hujung2 nak masuk third trimester baru beli dekat kedai baby. Kitorang prefer Aeon Midvalley. Sebab nak masuk mother care bagai idok le temannn.

Third trimester-

Sikit sikit sakit tu datang, sakit ni datang. Sakit pinggang. Tapi Alhamdulillah towards the end jugak lah sakit tu datang. Certain orang awal2 dah sakit pinggang, macam aku hujung2 nak dekat due date ni sakit datang. Air ketuban kurang sampai kena warded. Sampai la ni, at 38 weeks belum bersalin lagi.

Also, time third trimester ni boleh la pergi antenatal class. Ada yang free and ada yang berbayar. We went to Hospital Pakar An-Nur punya antenatal class. RM150 per couple. You can just message them on facebook. Cause kalau call pun, dia akan suruh PM facebook. Tapi sebenarnya, apa yang dia ajar, semua ada dalam buku pink checkup pregnancy tu. kalau bukak buku dekat Klinik Kesihatan la. Kalau swasta tak pasti.

Andddd dah hujung2 pregnancy ni, banyak pulak barang sampai kat rumah. Emmm rupanya ada orang beli mainan sebab tengah sale. Tau2 je, "nanti ada barang sampai bagitau ya." Haiyoh husband very the excited. Nasib baik dia pandai kemas so im okay with it. As long as he's happy and excited its fine. heheh.


I think thats about it. Phewh. Please pray por meeee. May Allah ease this journey and my labour process. Serem oi.

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Will un-private this blog back.. sooner or later. lol.

one hella week

Hi.

Last week was very tough. I've been busy from weekend to weekdays. Whatsapp duk ting ting ting user complain application asyik "HENG". Rasa nak tampor je dah la complain eja tak betul. *rolling eyes*

So sepanjang minggu busy backup data and tengok whatsapp (yeeeee supporting them through whatsapp wehh. so annoying kan?!). To top it off, i had to continue work even after office hours at home. Which made me and hubs argue a bit.

Then Thursday was supposed to be an OKAY day. I managed to backup most of the users' data, AND release a new version app to fix the bloody issue they complained about. I even saved money on lunch by having free nasi lemak from the training that i ponteng (i pergi sehari je sebab lepastu busy busy busy. i dont have shit load of time to learn UI/UX while everyone is complaining about the app).

BUT. Masa malam lepas balik dari kerja, aku baru sedar yang wallet tak ada masa nak pergi drive through McD dengan husband. SCARY AF. Dah la wallet tu hadiah birthday dari husband T___T
Sedih lagi satu sebab kena marah sebab clumsy.

Jumaat pagi pagi dah pergi office carik wallet dalam locker. Dekat kerusi, dalam beg, memang tak ada. Dah expect tak ada sebab hari khamis tu memang takde keluarkan wallet langsung. Sebab sampai sampai office dah  busy. Pergi balik Petron sebelah office check ada tak orang report wallet hilang, check dekat guard office, dekat parking management, semua tak ada.

Last last call mak, kena marah lagi satu round sebab mak aku lagi la banyak kali warning suruh jaga wallet dengan phone elok2. sebab aku jenis bawak wallet dengan phone pegang kat tangan. Tapi she did teman me to lodge a police report, pergi JPN, pergi JPJ pergi maybank and bank islam. dari nangis sampai dah boleh gelak la finally.

Saddest part is that i regret not taking any photo of that wallet. T___T. Plus dalam tu ada gambar abah and gambar husband time sekolah muka jambu. T__T. Sekarang muka dah tak jambu. wuwuwu.

link

Tengok lah, gambar pun ambik dari website charles and keith. SEDIH SANGAT TAU. You can take all the money, all the cards. Just give me back my wallet and the pics inside. Oh and buku derma darah tu sekali kalau boleh. Dalam tu ada business card i, boleh hantar kat office camtu je letak je depan pintu pun takpe , janji sampai balik T_T

Bought a new wallet today and a sling bag, tapi dah nangis setiap kali terfikir nak pakai wallet baru. Sebab sentimental value dah tak ada. :'(

Now im waiting for my husband to buy me a new one and i'll promise myself not to be careless anymore. Sekarang nak keluar kereta , masuk kereta mesti check wallet dengan phone. Dulu selalu macam marah jugak husband kelam kabut nak double triple check wallet kalau gi memana. Padan muka.

BTW IT WAS A BIRTHDAY GIFT. adakah akak perlu menunggu tahun depan untuk dapat wallet baru? Hurmmm *garu garu dagu*

1 year

Hi

Its gonna be a very simple post, which no ones gonna ready anyway. hahaha. its my first everrrr wedding anniversary yeayyy.

guess what im doing rn? just finished lipat kain seminggu, and home alone rn. hubs is outstation for work. sobs. writing this post while listening to Dayang Nurfaizah's Lelaki Teragung.

Kau lah~ kekasih di dunia~ dan di syurga. kekeke. not good at writing long ass cheesy stuff, so, Happy Anniversary to both of us!

cepat balik and celebrate sesama <3 p="">

Tetiba emotional. dah lah bye. T___T

Review Klinik Gigi Alan Adlan, Bangi - 2017

Hi.

Salam ramadhan yalls. Makin dewasa makin hambar intro. Anyway,review ni aku nak buat dah lama dah. Tapi tak terbuat buat sebab malas. Aku pergi klink gigi Alan Adlan ni few months back, sebelum puasa, wayyyy before sebelum puasa haritu. Pergi sebab gigi belakang sakit.


Biasa pergi dekat Klinik Pergigian Saidah, PJ. Tapi la ni dah jadi orang Kajang kena la carik yang dekat dengan area sini ja. Google punya google, tengok review banyak kata Klinik Gigi Alan Adlan ni okay. So aku pun buat appointment pukul 9.30am, and nak check gigi sekali la.

So pukul 9.00AM aku dah terpacak depan Klinik Gigi ittew. Kalau nak tau dia dekat CK RAHIM yang besar tu, kau boleh nampak signboard dia. By right, kalau klinik ada appointment pukul 9.30, pukul 9 kau dah bukak kan? Tapi tidakkk. 9.30am baru dia bukak. Kalau camtu buat la first appointment pukul 10. smh. minus one point di situ.

Okay la sebab sebagai typical melayu yang malas membaca, aku buat in points. Tu pun kalau ada yang baca lah.

PROS:

- klinik Cantik
- Parking senang. Bukan kawasan yang susah parking
- Receptionist okay. (Tapi time tu receptionist tu adalah junior maahad yang aku pernah tak suka dulu. hahhaha)
- ruang menunggu selesa
- Dentist yang baikkkkkkkkkkkkkkk sangat

CONS:

- Kul 9.30 appointment, bukak la klinik awal. Ni nak kekalkan jugak konsep melayu kena lambat dalam semua perkara.
- Dr attend patient lambat. to be exact patient tu aku.
- Bila check, dia kata ada gigi nak tumbuh. (WTF im 25 ffs).
- Dalam masa yang sama dia detect ada gigi tampal nak cabut
- Dalam masa yang sama, aku nak bersihkan gigi
- Dr tu, suruh aku buat pilihan nak either nak scaling or tampal gigi sahaja. and she said i had to make another appointment so that she can attend the next patient on time

WTF lady, you attended me late, and now youre ASKING me to choose only one treatment so that u can attend another patient on time? The lady (yeay i decided not to address her as Dr anymore) was so nice i wasnt able to say no. So i chose to do scaling , and made another appointment later that day for filling session.

so here goes another pros and cons for the second appointment.

PROS:
- came on time, and okay la kalau time ni dr nak attend lambat pun, its understandable since ada patient lain.
- Dr tu pun terkejut sebab aku kena buat 2 bloody appointments because of the first lady REFUSED to help me
- So buat la filling, same like the first one, the second dr was sooooo nice.

Settle bayar, pergi office.


Few days later. Gigiku yang ditampal terasa ngilu sengilu ngilunya. Sedangkan kalau dah tampal kenapa nak rasa ngilu pula. I decided not to go back to Klinik Alan Adlan, sebab nanti lambat pergi office. Went back to our normal dentist, Klinik Pergigian Saidah.

Appointment pukul 9.30, sharp 9.30 nama dah kena panggil. Dr Saidah siap boleh borak2 lagi pasal time is gold 15 minutes before our appointment. So masa dia check, dia kata dia taktau filling apa Dr tu pakai last time, and dia boleh senang2 korek and tadaaa, fillling ter cabut. one thing that she concluded:

1.Filling murah, harga boleh kekal murah.

Puihhhh! Taknak patient lari mungkin. Aku dah lari dulu dah. Lepas2 tu ada kawan aku tanya haritu aku pergi dentist mana, aku cakap jangan pergi Klinik Alan Adlan ni. Orang bagi review takde dia balasnya. Yang like pun yang puji pujian je

Even in blogs, ramai review bagus. Jenis paid review ke apa tak tau la kan. Nampak macam tak. Entah la, maybe its their first time kot. Or maybe diorang buat scaling je so mana nak tau.

Aishah Radhiah Spa Experience

Hi.

Haritu masa sebelum kahwin, aku memang tak sempat nak buat spa ke apa. Even beberapa jam sebelum kahwin boleh pergi laminate tanda arah jalan wey. sedih! hahaha. so, haritu saja ambik cuti hari jumaat, tanya kawan, ada yang free. Terus baca blog2 carik spa muslimah yang best best. Aku pergi berdua je dengan farah sebab yang lain kerja. Farah sebab dia kerja kat Johor so jum'at tu cuti.

In the end, kitorang decide untuk pergi Aishah Radhiah Spa cawangan Bangi. Sebab baca review banyak yang okay feedback. Plus price range dia okay. Ehehe. Waktu first datang, diorang baru nak bukak. Untuk interior deco, personally masuk2 tak rasa macam masuk spa sebenarnya hahaha. Tapi sebab dah beria booking kan. Redah je lah.

Kitorang ambik package permaisuri. Tapi dia bagi cadangan suruh facial tu suruh buat chocolate facial, tambah RM50. and sebab kitorang nak try sauna - RM30- jadilah total RM330 sorang. Sebelum tambah dah siap2 tanya boleh pakai debit ke tidak sebab keluar duit cukup cukup sebenarnya hahahha.

PROS : 

- masseuse dia sangat friendly.

- explanation yang jelas.and pandai marketing. pros untuk dia, cons untuk duit aku hahahha.

- masa facial dia bagi tips nak jaga muka

- facial dia best. sangat best. licin hidung aku,

- bersih

- ada tempat solat, siap dengan telekung

CONS : 

- bilik yang kitorang buat facial cam takde privacy

- dengar diorang berborak sesama sendiri

- there was someone else inside the room, aside from the akak2 yang urut kitorang. sangat tak comfortable lah. 

- takde privacy sebab orang boleh keluar masuk bilik tu. anak mintak duit, anak dapat kerja etc etc etc.

- urut sakit nak mampus. hahaha. dia kata kaki kiri aku tegang, lagi sakit lagi dia urut. padahal sebelum urut elok je. ni sekarang lagi tegang aku rasa kaki ni adalah.

lagi satu aku kecewa sikit bab toilet, haha. okay la toilet dia bersih. tapi aku expect shower, sekali ada tempayan, and tempat buang air. kira macam kau mandi kolah la. version kecik. taktau la kot toilet spa lain pun sama. sebab kitorang first timer kan pergi spa. 

nak pergi lagi ke idok? maybe boleh try cawangan lain kot. sebab yang kat bangi punya macam takde lah besar sangat. kitorang tengok kat banner yang Damansara punya branch macam cantik lagi. 

Tapi personally aku rasa nak try spa lain kot. Tunggu gaji lah tapi. Nak try hannan medispa, website macam tak berfunngsi. Tak membantu langsung. Haih. 

okay bye. 

Short Getaway - Grand Lexis PD

hi.


last two weeks time kerja paez tetiba message kat office, tanya nak gi grand lexis tak? wey, kau bayangkan lah. geng2 baru kahwin semua upload gambar pergi honeymoon korea lah, langkawi lah, apa lah. apa yang aku rasa sebagai pengantin tak berapa nak baru sangat? ya. aku nak gi jalan2 jugak. memang time tu aku dah tak kisah baki bank ada berapa, memang aku nak gi cuti. Tapi of course la bukan on chinese new year. pfft. sorry iolls dah kerja. semenjak aku dah terkena pergi bercuti kat Melaka time cuti panjang, lepastu nak mamp, aku berazam takkan pergi bercuti time cuti sekolah.


ada sedikit perselisihan faham okay time nak book bilik. aku kalau boleh nak bilik garden je, dia pulak jenis yang alang2 dah mahal, mahal terus. kitorag tong tong pulak duit. haaaa lagi lah. hahaha. ended up kitorang book Grand pool villa. anyway, kalau korang nak a bit privacy, pilih la lower unit room. tapi tu pun kira open air jugak. tapi dont worry. dia cam ada penghadang untuk tutup view , tapi still dapat cahaya. confused? nanti cek tunjuk gambar .

oh btw kalau dari kajang ke grand lexis takleh nak jamak okay. tak lebih 2 marhalah T__T(pemalas detected tetttt). hahhaha. aku dulu time kecik2 gi PD jamak kot. Tapi sebab Grand Lexis ni dekat seremban je. kau kalau dari KL takyah nak acah2 musafir sangat la.

insert lagu lelaki teragung kat sini. hahahhahahaha lari~~

check in process cepat. walaupun ramai orang, tapi cepat. macam takde lah kau kena tunggu sejam nak check in.

queue untuk buggy. 

queue untuk siapa yang nak guna buggy services. memang semua yang check in akan guna la. sebab taktau bilik memasing kat mana. dengan ada yang bawak barang macam nak duduk sebulan. hahahha. kalau tengok queue memang cam panjang, tapi takyah tunggu lama pun. sebab cepat service dia. and buggy pun bukan 1 je satu hotel tu. hahahah. masa nak masuk parking, banyak gila tengok buggy dia dok pusing2.

surprisingly malaysians boleh beratur betul2 kat sini. ehehe.

and.....*drum rolls* tadaaaaa. 

dua katil king size. syiok wehh

SYIOK SANGAT WEH. time ni baru nak berterima kasih dekat paez sebab book grand pool villa. masuk2 memang kitorang carik swimming pool dulu. hehhe.

ada coffee table.

ada shower kat luar.

gambar aku tangkap mostly gelap. so yeah. jenis tak berseni. hahaha. anyway, look at how murky the sea water is.

btw pool dia sejuk gila okay. patut la tengok review kat trip advisor, ada mat salleh ni komen kata air sejuk gila sampai kena pergi public pool. tapi mat salleh tu pun lemah betul, duk lama sikit dalam air takda la sejuk. pakej kencing sekali kasi air panas sikit ahahahahahambar. aku tak buat kay!

our pool. and thats le husband trying to lower down the curtain thingy.

sampai2 terus makan tengahari (yeah, at 4.30). tak sempat nak solat asar terus masuk pool weh. hahahah. excited ngat.

ada cam small kitchen counter.

perlu di selang seli dengan gambar beliau sebab aku malas nak rearrange gambar ikut turutan. hahah.

toilet untuk buang air. 

toilet untuk shower lepas mandi pool.

rak towel. towel ada 4 helai. semua kitorang guna.

a sink.obviously.

lepas maghrib kitorang dinner. kat kedai2 dekat je. tapi malam cam tak hidup kawasan situ. ended up pergi kedai yang what we thought was a western restaurant rupanya kedai mamak yang jual semua benda dari western sampai ke eastern. 

not what i ordered. ate a tom yam ayam SOAP 

sepatutnya aku photostat buku menu kedai tu. biar jadi hiburan hahahaha. btw, malam kitorang tak mandi pool. sebab depan laut. aku ni penakut sikit. Malam kan waktu makhluk2 tu berkeliaran. kat laut2 pulak. tak berani la. plus malas and nak tidur awal je. *wink* hahahahah

besok breakfast pagi. jalan kaki je takde makna nak naik buggy. breakfast okay la above average. Tak macam breakfast kat Tunamaya Hotel Desaru, boleh check camne aku review dekat tripadvisor. Tapi kat Restoran Duyung , Grand Lexis ni macam sempit sikit. makanan sedap. yogurt sedap.

balik bilik, jadi badak berendam kejap, pastu pukul 11 ada orang dah suruh siap2 kemas barang nak balik. emmm. hahahha.

all in all, sesuai untuk short getaway. jenis pemalas cam kitorang nak jalan2 jauh, recommended grand lexis

mystery shopper

hi.

aku baru tau yang mystery shopper ni is actually a profession.....lepas company aku suruh jadi mystery shopper untuk satu branding/company yang agak famous. jeng jeng jeng. takleh gitau sebab ye lah, kata mystery sangat kan.

task kitorang, masuk kedai or petrol station, tengok kat kaunter or tempat pam minyak tu ada ke tak tertera branding company tu and buat survey online. survey tu dari company sendiri punya app je la. hews.

nervous okay. aku pilih yang non-working hours and yang berada di sekitar kajang. balik kerja, paez dah ready nak tolong bawak. hiks. aku siap buat note okay , aturcara majlis lagi dalam phone macam mana nak jadi mystery shopper step by step. kitorang kena tangkap gambar sekali as a proof yang branding tu memang tak ada or ada kat kaunter.

masuk kedai, ambik calpis 2 botol. tunggu orang kaunter tanya, tapi dia tak tanya, terus ajukan soalan. nak ambik gambar dah practice masa briefing. hahaha. pakai volume down punya button supaya tak obvious sangat.

lepastu sebab nervous iolls tak ambik receipt, so takleh claim calpis tu. nasib baik rm4 je. haih.

ok bye.