Sending Out wedding invitations to lecturers

Hi.

Tadi aku pergi KUIS, sebab nak kasi kad kahwin dekat lecturers. Sumpah awkward yang amat sebab first lecturer aku jumpa tak ingat aku. Pastu dia tanya aku dia mengajar apa, aku pulak tak ingat. Elok sangat lah tu kekeke. i had to use azuan fahim ghazali and hasnah's name for her to remember me, tapi takpe diorang pun puan tu tak ingat sangat hihih XD. Ye lah iolls dulu kan passive income orang nya.

Tapi Alhamdulillah sorang  dua je la tak ingat. Yang lain memang ingat sebab hampir tiap tiap sem mengajar kitorang. Ada sorang lecturer siap elak eye contact kay. Obviously dia tak ingat aku siapa hahaha. Tapi aku kasi jugak kad sebab pernah belajar dengan dia time shortsem.

Soalan standard yang bukan sahaja lecturer, malahan tak kira umur lelaki atau perempuan tanya "kahwin dengan orang mana?" Jawapan standard "orang selangor jugak." Tapi bila dengan lecturer "orang sini je puan, orang kuis." hahaha

Puan M : Oh saya tau, ada tengok2 jugak kat facebook (we're friends on facebook XD)

Puan S : Siapa ye?

Tashia : Ala puan nama dia dulu panjang orang panggil.

Puan S : *Muka terkejut habis*

 guess she didnt expect that coming. hahahha.

Puan A : La saya ingatkan awak dah kahwin dah (must have stalked me on facebook jugak tu kekeke)


Alhamdulillah everything went well. Memang ada facebook event untuk invite, tapi rasa macam tak proper nak invite lecturers through facebook. And gembira sebenarnya bila dapat jumpa balik lecturers yang ngajar dulu. =)

Marriage

Hi all.

Harini raya kedua hang pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana pi mana ja? Hikhik.

Harini raya few houses. And dengar orang cerita pasal experience kahwin depa. Not in a good way though. 2 stories thats enough to creep me out.

First story

A woman, was married to a mat pit. Who believed that he'll change after getting married. Ended up divorced after <5 years ( sebab anak first umur 5 tahun, just assuming ) . Anak first kena bawak lari dengan ayah and dah terpengaruh dengan lifestyle mat pit. Sian dia. Ex husband carik and ugut macam macam. It was a very long story and i tried not to focus on it too much.

Second story

Perempuan jugak, bercerai dengan ex husband sebab jumpa perempuan lain. Kira orang ketiga la ni. And thats all i know. Hats off to the woman for not selling her stories out on facebook and to everyone. Kitorang tau pun lepas dah habis iddah. Kire lama jugak la kan.

Thing is, im getting married in 2 weeks time insyaAllah. These stories rub off all of my expectations of marriage and hits me back to reality. These things could happen in a marriage (Na'udzubillah). Marriage is not just about hearts and flowers, hugs and kisses, baby and bae, etc etc etc.

Jodoh pertemuan ajal maut kerja Tuhan. May Allah ease everything for us. And may it lasts forever till jannah :)

P/s : you probably not gonna read this now since kat kampung internet slow . Just would like to say love you. Kbye